Tomorrow

Tomorrow at 6:30 I will be meeting up with the guy that I have been talking, and emailing with for the last few weeks. ┬áIn reading my previous posts I can’t believe I have not mentioned this before – probably because I was on vacation. We had just started emailing before I met, and I…

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Online Pattern

When I first started online dating I loved being able to read about all these different people, even the ones that were not in my realm of interest. It felt exciting, a little voyeuristic being able to peer into people’s likes and dislikes without really knowing them, but knowing you *might* be able to know…

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Once again

Once again I find myself sitting here pondering just how much I don’t get the male psyche. Remember Andy. Really nice, family oriented, divorced dad of three. Chivalrous, flirty, fun? We had just gotten to the point of being past the first 5 dates, and talking about maybe taking a day to go see his…

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Kitchen on Common

A great find. A great place. A great date. I even ate beets. I never thought I liked beets and now, maybe I do. You know you like someone when you eat beets, and spend the entire meal leaning forward to catch every word they say and to just be closer to them. The next…

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Like Buying a House

Online dating is a little like buying a house. For the most part you get the code words, but every once in awhile you let your mind believe what you want rather than what is. For example “cozy” really means “small”, needs “TLC” really means it needs major renovations…and so on. There is a language…

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Hopeful

I am just glad to have the next 48 hours to myself – work free – as much as my mind can not think about it. Dave is on vacation next week so I am the most senior person in the department. As much as it is hard and I have too much on my…

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