lobstah odds

What are the odds of two people who have only met once getting someone this same t-shirt for their birthday? Think about how low those odds are and then think about what the odds are that someone’s ex-wife and their now girlfriend would get them the same t-shirt. Yes. This happened to me. I gave…

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Weddings and Weekends

My cousin’s wedding this past weekend was fun. Not as elaborate as the family had all gossiped it up to be but it was nice to get dressed up. My family cleans up pretty well. The bride and groom were gorgeous and they are off happily honeymooning in Positano, Italy and France. I love this…

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ziggy update

Good news for Ziggy – he is getting better … slowly, but he is improving. No more seizures, his vision is back and he is responding to his name. So, every one is exhaling just a little bit. The next milestone will be when he can come home. CT is hoping for tomorrow but I…

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extra prayers for ziggy

Some days the best laid plains just don’t happen, and other plans take their place.  I know no one reads this blog but if someone happens across it tonight, please say an extra little prayer for a tiny little 7-pound dog who is banged up pretty bad after getting hit by a car earlier today.…

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3 things; 4 words

My intuition is getting pretty accurate with C. Right after I wrote my last post I got an email asking about plans for the weekend. Things feel much more relaxed between us, and I had a truly wonderful time last night. Relaxed, comfortable, fun, nice. All good. I’m starting to realize that less sometimes yields…

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No Good at Titles….

It’s Thursday night and I am ready for the weekend to be here. I haven’t heard from C. since Monday. I am not worried that I won’t hear from him, I am past that. I hope we have plans this weekend. I have no reason to think we won’t; we have done something each weekend…

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Sunday Done Day

Fall weekends are so beautiful it almost makes me forget that I am sad that summer is over. Almost. Took a gorgeous ride today out Rte. 2 through Groton and Townsend up into Nashua. It’s not quite foliage season yet but it was really pretty and a the perfect thing to do on a day…

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all’s well that ends well

All is well that ends well tonight in love and romance. Chris and I finally connected and he came over tonight – we talked and cleared the air – he was sweet and it really went much better than I had expected. It really was a action/reaction thing the last three weeks. He was feeling…

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Sunday becomes Wednesday

Dinner last night didn’t happen. I didn’t really get a reason, just a quick email that it wasn’t going to work and would Wednesday work instead. Wednesday it is. Honestly I am tired of over thinking the whole thing. In a way I am over it. I am starting to get it. We have a…

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The Past 3 Weeks

So I have been a bit quiet lately because when I am upset or uncertain I tend to be quiet. Things with Chris have been – different. I guess that is the best way to describe it. Up until three weeks ago he made an effort we didn’t see each other a lot, but once…

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