Once again

Once again I find myself sitting here pondering just how much I don’t get the male psyche. Remember Andy. Really nice, family oriented, divorced dad of three. Chivalrous, flirty, fun? We had just gotten to the point of being past the first 5 dates, and talking about maybe taking a day to go see his…

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Like Buying a House

Online dating is a little like buying a house. For the most part you get the code words, but every once in awhile you let your mind believe what you want rather than what is. For example “cozy” really means “small”, needs “TLC” really means it needs major renovations…and so on. There is a language…

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Hopeful

I am just glad to have the next 48 hours to myself – work free – as much as my mind can not think about it. Dave is on vacation next week so I am the most senior person in the department. As much as it is hard and I have too much on my…

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Date

I think I have a date next Monday. To dinner AND a Red Sox Game. I am impressed at the effort. I have to admit there are pros and cons to the “fly by” date. You know the kind, the meet for coffee, or a quick lunch date. Don’t commit too much time date. More…

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Coincidence?

Remember my moment of weakness, the one where I (foolishly) put myself out there yet again and then felt bad because I didn’t hear anything back. Well, I did – hear back that is. Coincidence or something more I am not sure but I sent the IM at about 10:20 pm because for days I…

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